For Thriftier, For Poorer! Bargain Bride Plans Wedding For Less Than £1,500 So Poorly Grandad Could Walk Her Down The Aisle
This bargain bride planned her entire wedding for less than £1,500 – so her poorly grandad could walk her down the aisle.
Thrifty Adele Byng, 29, put her initial dreams of a lavish wedding abroad on hold to ensure grandad David Hodge, 77, who has Parkinson’s disease, was able to walk alongside her when she tied the knot.
The savvy saver scoured social media for bargains and freebies and planned the celebration in just one year to ensure her cut-price £1,320 nuptials with new hubby Thomas Byng, 31, a charity shop volunteer, went off without a hitch.
Support worker and mum-of-one Adele, from Portsmouth, said: “Thomas and I had been engaged for a while and didn’t see the urgency in getting married.
“We had planned on a nice medium budget wedding costing a few thousand, but as we didn’t have a large income each month and I was only working part time in a supermarket, we knew we couldn’t do the stately home or lavish wedding we had originally dreamed of.
“In 2017, it became clear my grandad’s mobility was going downhill rapidly.
“I had always dreamed he would walk me down the aisle, so we decided to make the wedding a bit more DIY and keep it low cost so that my grandad could be a part of the day.
“Everybody knew what the day meant to us. To have my grandad be able to walk me down the aisle absolutely made my day and there was a lot of tears from everyone.
“We never planned to do a ‘budget’ wedding, as the word is portrayed as cheap and some even said my wedding would be chavvy, but I can honestly say hand on heart it was amazing.
“Everybody who came commented on how relaxed it was, and not having to adhere to timings meant everything was heartfelt.”
Adele was working at a supermarket while she and Thomas were initially saving for their wedding, meaning they couldn’t afford to splash thousands on an extravagant ceremony and party.
But David, who was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease in 2008, became more seriously ill and the couple realised having him there and able to walk alongside her was the most important thing.
Determined to organise the bash last August within a year, Adele used social media and budget websites to find cheaper options and paid small amounts off the wedding each month.
The mum-of-one also reconnected with a schoolfriend who now works as a make-up artist and asked family friends to help out with the food, photographs and decorations instead of giving the newlyweds wedding gifts.
Adele had a pastel theme rather than one colour scheme so that she was not restricted by colour price differences and managed to snap up her wedding dress for £45 on eBay after weeks of searching for the right style.
The mum, who tied the knot at her local registry office before partying at a nearby working men’s club, is now encouraging brides to do the same as her as she feels DIY weddings are more thoughtful.
Adele said: “I joined groups on Facebook especially for weddings and brides, and I put out posts detailing what I was looking for so I could get recommendations and then finding the best suitable price for us.
“By using the recommendation tool on my own personal Facebook I managed to find my make-up artist in an old school friend who I hadn’t spoken to in years and had no idea she did makeup, meaning it didn’t cost much at all.
“Websites like eBay, Amazon and Wish were my best friend while planning the wedding, getting the table decorations from them our bridesmaids dresses and even my own wedding dress.
“I would 100 per cent recommend other couples to do it because it’s just all from the heart, and everyone said how relaxed and lovely the day and evening was compared to some at stately homes that they had been in, which can be quite constricted with time.”
Adele said she and her grandparents have always been close, with David taking on a father role while she was growing up.
She added: “I always wanted my grandad to walk me down the aisle, along with my dad the other side, due to him being my primary dad figure growing up.
“His nickname from me is ‘grumpy gramps’ and I just adore him really.
“He isn’t an overly affectionate man, hence the nickname, but he has a wicked sense of humour and is so thankful for all I do for him and my nan.
“Making him such a central part of my wedding was just me paying back what they have done for me growing up.”
FACT BOX: BREAKDOWN OF WHAT ADELE SPENT
REGISTRY OFFICE: £400
RECEPTION AT WORKING MEN’S CLUB: £150
WEDDING DRESS: £45
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: £140
FOOD FOR BUFFET: £130
HAIR FOR FOUR: £60
MAKE UP £40